The Code
The living principles that shape how we show up—for ourselves, for one another, and for the world.
Rooted in presence, courage, emotional clarity, and brotherhood.
We stand for presence, courage, and emotional clarity.
We choose honesty over performance, accountability over avoidance, and service over self-importance.
In this brotherhood, men are invited to be fully here—grounded, open-hearted, and willing to grow together.
Our Values
Our Mission
Our mission is to gather men who are ready to live awake—men who want to listen deeply, speak truthfully, and carry their strength with humility.
Through circles, ritual, and acts of service, we learn to become better fathers, sons, partners, and leaders. The work begins in how we show up in the room, and ripples outward into our homes, cities, and the wider world.
Presence & Deep Listening
When we gather, we slow down. Phones away, masks off.
We practice listening without fixing, rescuing, or performing—so each man feels fully seen and heard.
Courage & Truth-Telling
Sexual Integrity & Emotional Safety
Grounded Humility
Breath & Emotional Regulation
We honor our desires without letting them rule us.
We commit to consent, respect, and honesty in our relationships, creating spaces where women and men would feel safe if they saw how we live.
We train the nervous system, not just the mind.
Through breath, stillness, and simple practices, we learn to notice our reactions and respond from a steadier place.
Courage here is not loud bravado; it’s the quiet decision to be honest.
We speak truth with respect, own our impact, and stay in the room when things get uncomfortable.
No one is above the circle. No one is beneath it.
We admit when we’re wrong, ask for help, and remember that real strength includes the willingness to learn.
Service & Brotherhood
This isn’t just about our own healing.
We show up for one another, support each other’s families and futures, and look for ways to serve our neighborhoods, cities, and beyond.
Core Pillars of the Tribe
These pillars are mapped to the body of a man because we believe values must be lived, not just spoken. Each one asks something of us in how we think, feel, speak, and act.